Happy anniversary baby. Again.

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When the time came for Heuer and I to plan our wedding – we were a bit conflicted. We really loved the idea of a small, intimate beach wedding, but both thought the reception should RAWK. We decided to split the events by having a laid back destination wedding in Mexico on July 7th, 2007 and then celebrate the official wedding reception one year, one month and one day AFTER in San Francisco on August 8th, 2008.

Ok, to be completely honest…we had wanted to throw the San Francisco reception immediately upon our return from Mexico, but half way through the wedding planning, we realized our financial situation was not going to allow the party we wanted. Not in 2007 at least. I was just coming off a nine (9) month sabbatical, and we decided to spend a lot more on the wedding than originally planned. Our wedding day turned out perfectly so I wouldn’t change a thing. It just meant putting our plans on hold for a bit…ok…we put our plans on hold for a year. Well really one year, one month and one day.

When the topic of our one year anniversary came up, we both agreed we had to throw a party. A big party. And when we started looking at the calendar, we realized quickly when one gets married on 07/07/07, it only makes sense one has a party on 08/08/08. From lucky number 7s to lucky number 8s (three times the prosperity).

Much like our wedding day, the reception/anniversary party was a blur. 100+ people in our house. Stocked bar. Great food. Good times for sure.

Heuer-Wells SF Wedding Reception

And special thanks to Tom Conrad of Pandora who provided the audio equipment so we can have groovy music played inside and out during the party. That was super swell. Thank you!

It has been an incredible first year of marriage. There have been many ups (travel, work, personal successes, etc.) and many downs (health, work, personal failures, etc.). I think sometimes you need those random kicks in the ass to make you truly appreciate the good times. And boy oh boy…do I appreciate them now.

And now, our focus turns to the planning for the 09/09/09 anniversary party… 🙂

Photo credit: Scott Beale / Laughing Squid

Another day, another trip to the hospital

The last three months have been incredibly difficult (health wise) for Heuer and I. I have not written about any of it yet, well – haven’t written about much over the last year, but I need to, as I simply cannot keep it bottled inside anymore.

Our experiences deserve more than this post and I will find the time to break it all down. Right now, it is taking all my energy to remain calm as I sit alone in this waiting room awash in pale beige walls and sea foam green chairs, staring at a plain brown door waiting for my Heuer to emerge.

He has been in there an hour longer than expected. This concerns me. I am trying to remain strong. I am not asking that he walk out smiling, just that he walks out the door to me.

We eat a lot. We drink a lot. We don’t exercise.

We travel to foreign countries.Tonight all those factors collided inside Heuer’s body.It is Tuesday afternoon and I find myself sitting in a Kaiser waiting room, staring at the lightly colored wood door in front of me. That door leads to the room where doctors have been poking and prodding Heuer for more than 45 minutes in the hopes of finding what ails him.Needless to say, I am scared shitless.Hoping Kaiser knows what they are doing…and that they return my Heuer to me in one piece.Stay tuned.UPDATE 1/9/08: Heuer got a call from the doctor this morning and it has been confirmed he has Giardiasis. He caught the bug while we were in Mexico, had it treated then, thought we killed it. Obviously the bug liked being inside Heuer as we had no idea that was what was causing him grief as of late.He also has high blood pressure, high cholesterol and is pre-diabetes, but the ‘bug’ is the thing that was freaking us out the most so happy to know there is a name and a cure. We have a lot of work ahead of us, but I am hopeful we caught all these ailments early enough to do something about it.2008 will be the year of ‘health’ for us.

I can be a forgetful ass sometimes…

Yesterday was January 7th, our 6 month wedding anniversary.And I completely forgot it.Well, I forgot it until Heuer came home – flowers and card in hand with an invitation to dinner so we could celebrate. Oh Lord. I am such a bad wife.People always joke we picked 7/7/7 so that it would be easy for Heuer to remember. Little do they know it is ME who is the forgetful one.Good thing that boy loves me. If my memory is this bad now…think what it will be like in 20 years. ☺Also good thing he understands I am not perfect. The momentary look of disappointment was quickly replaced with a laugh, a hug and a proclamation that I was buying dinner since I was the goofball who forgot.I do love that man.So it all worked out in the end, especially since little does he know, I used his credit card. ☺